Dating Made Easier with RADIANT ABILITIES

Resources and support for developing meaningful relationships

Kathy O'Connell with husband and son


Radiant Abilities helps you to increase self-esteem, confidence, and empowerment in dating, relationships, and sexuality.

We work with all people in supporting successful dating and healthy relationships and have a specialty in helping people with disabilities.

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Dating Made Easier

For People Wanting to Date and Have Healthy Relationships

The monthly membership will teach you dating and relationship skills while transforming you and your dating journey.

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Supporting Dating and Relationships

Empowering Healthy Relationships for People with Disabilities

A Dating and Relationship Curriculum

This resource provides a complete system of lessons, videos, and resource material for supporting skills in dating and healthy relationship development, particularly for individuals with disabilities.

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Supporting Dating and Relationships

Supporting Dating and Relationships

For Professionals and Family Members

The monthly membership for educators, disability professionals, and family members, provides ongoing training and resources to teach and effectively support dating and relationship skills.

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What People Say About Radiant Abilities

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Dating Membership

The intrinsic value of Dating Made Easier that Kathy and Alexa have created far outweighs the monetary value of a monthly membership. If you’re disabled and looking to achieve success in the dating world, Dating Made Easier can and will give you the tools to attract—and to become—the ideal romantic companion.

- Chris
Age 44

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Professional Membership

This is an excellent resource to encourage self-awareness, reflection, and acceptance. The activities promote recognition of each individual’s positive traits and reflections on the core traits needed to develop a compatible fulfilling relationship.

~ Maureen Blake-Cooper
Special Education teacher

Kathy O'Connell speaking at a graduation ceremony

Speaking Engagements

The first time I heard Kathy speak was at our Care Giver Retreat and it made a lasting impression on me. Years later, Kathy spoke at our College Works  graduation and her life’s journey truly hit the hearts of all in attendance. The following days after graduation, I continually heard from Arc Administration, students, families and staff how emotional her speech was.

- Jerry Switzer
Vice President of Programs
Arc Oneida Lewis Chapter


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For me, dating and relationships is my passion

After years of struggling with what I call the “dating puzzle” and trying to find success in relationships as a person with a disability, I finally did. When it happened, I realized that success in dating and relationships is really available to all people. It just requires some skills, resources and support along the way.

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Kathy O'Connell

Dating, Relationships, and Disability Podcast

A podcast full of practical dating advice for those with a disability

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Finding Love and Happiness

Dating, Relationships, and Disability podcast offers strategies, encouragement, and mindset tips on dating with a disability. Episodes feature guidance and practical advice on how to navigate sexual ableism, focus on your power to attract and develop happy and healthy relationships.

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Radiant Abilities, LLC
PO Box 245
Camillus, NY 13031
(315) 492-4899