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Disability Coping Essentials: Thankful for Learning to Embrace Disability Nov 24, 2015

I know I have said this before – I love Thanksgiving! For the total foodie I am (I really think I have a second calling to work for Wegman’s, the be all of grocery stores), I love the whole process of preparing a feast and gathering with loved ones to share it.  However, what I...

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5 Essential Principles for Coping with Disability Nov 05, 2015

“Kathy, can you come and talk to our support group about your life?”

“Absolutely,” I answered, because I simply adore the David Clark Learning Center (DCLC), a true gem of a program in our community. DCLC is a day program for people with Traumatic Brain Injuries (TBI)...

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“What’s Wrong with You?” The Perfect Answer Jul 15, 2015

Don’t you just hate this question?

I can certainly understand a five-year old asking it of someone with a disability. I always use it as a teachable moment with kids and begin by saying, “I walk and talk differently because I have cerebral palsy.” Depending on their...

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Three Important Ways to Define Yourself Apr 29, 2015

Let’s face it. We have all tried to define others with our thoughts, judgments, and opinions about them. To some degree, it’s human nature.

It can also be pretty damaging to one’s self-esteem, particularly when one lives with a difference that sets him apart.

I'm rolling out the...

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How to Radiate the Power to Attract Feb 18, 2015

It does not matter if you use a wheelchair, drool, or have muscle spasms.

You have the Power to Attract.

The most influential factor that can either promote or hinder one’s healthy sexuality (reading last week’s post on sexuality may help define this for you) is people’s ability...

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Three Questions for 2015 – Evolutions not Resolutions Dec 30, 2014
  1. What’s one area of my life that I can focus on to help me live more fully?
  2. How do I want to evolve this year?
  3. What’s the one thing I need to do, but it scares me?

I’m not one for New Year’s resolutions. If I make them, usually by mid-January, I’m running...

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What’s Your Firewalk? Nov 12, 2014

Wanna hear my story of walking on a bed of hot coals?

As many of you know, my book, Firewalk: Embracing Different Abilities, is essentially about my life experience of learning how to live happily and successfully with a disability.

Here’s the story about how I really got the lesson in...

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Five Affirmations for Living HAPPILY with a Disability Oct 22, 2014

Confidence is key to a happy and successful life.

This is true regardless of ability level. Perhaps even more true if you live with a disability, or any major difference, for that matter.

A disability certainly sets you apart from the crowd – and that’s a good thing! How absolutely...

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Why Maya Angelou's Work and Life Speaks Volumes to People with Disabilities Jun 02, 2014

Last week I listened to a news segment about the life and death of literary genius and civil rights activist Maya Angelou with tears rolling down my cheeks. I was not surprised by this, despite her books still being on my "To Read" list. I have been familiar with her work for years, though, and...

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The Gift of Being Alive Nov 27, 2011

Thanksgiving weekend is probably my most favorite weekend of the year. Yes, I love the food, seeing my family, and the four-day weekend, but I also love the true meaning behind the weekend. Being grateful, pausing in the midst of our busy lives and those silly Black Friday sales to give thanks...

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